How to make our life happy??

Today is the first day for our individual presentation..
all the students are well prepare before they stand in front to talk..
the most attractive is one of my friend's presentation...
she talk a very good topic which is: How to make our life happy??

She mention many point to make our life happy,
she found this information from a book..

But so sorry to said that,
In my opinion,
i do not agree some of the point that my friend mention..

For me,
want to have a happy life is need to know how to let go..

let go??

Yes,let go...
when you having alot of problem,
or you carry very heavy burden,
do you think you can leave happily???
I don't think so..
that why we need to let go..
try to let go or give up something that is not belong to you,
if the things is not belong to you,
you work so hard or do so hard to get it,
it also won't belong to you...
I NOT MEANS THAT YOU NO NEED TO WORK HARD!!

Then is forgive..
Forgive is the most difficult action...
can you forgive your enemy,
can you throw away your hate feeling??
can you forgive the people who really hurt you??
That is very hard..
so,when you know what is forgive,
you can feel that actually they are not so bad..
actually you can communicate better with them..

Love yourself!!
can you eating alone and won't feel lonely??
can you talk to yourself and enjoy when you are alone??
My tutor is right,
she said "before you love other people,you must know how to love yourself first,
when you know how to love yourself, you only will know how to love other people"
Yes,LOVE YOURSELF!!

Then must know give and take...
when you are live in this society,
you must know how to give and take..
try to give to other people,
it can be anything,
a smile,
a greeding and so on..
don't keep it..
when you know how to give,
people will let you take...
because no people can just give and do not take..

We need to feel thankful to all the people,
even our enemy,
thanks to them give you chance to change yourself to be more better..
thanks to the people who really help you..

Well,this is just my opinion how to be happy,
maybe different people have different way to be happy..
but i feel, i am very happy now..